Monday, February 2, 2009

My Dad


We just passed my Dad's birthday. Last year Dad was bedridden but sitting up and smiling and ready for his Birthday Dinner. Ron and I raced around and got him a steak dinner (thanks to Ron!!) Randimarie decorated his room and Mom, Ron, Jeff and I all gathered around his bed and had a party.
I asked Dad about each of his children, it was interesting to see how he looked at us, Linda being so able to handle anything in his eyes, Randy being the practical one, always able to fix anything, me, well, I would like to say he said I was sweet and wonderful, but that would be lying so I have to say he told me I was funny and always ready for a laugh. hmmmm well better than being sad?? Cindy he told me was his sweet girl, she was most like his Mother in her ability to quilt, and do needle work. Ron was the sports boy, from the very beginning Ron loved sports. Cookie was the baby and loved by all. JJ was the one he depended on, and at this time in his life, for his day to day stuff. Now remember this was a year ago and my aging memory is not the best but I loved that I heard one last time how Dad saw things.
He went downhill from that night and we didn't get to have many more nights of laughing and pictures.
I miss you Dad, I am glad Mom sent me back in to give you hug that night. It was my last one!

3 comments:

Roskelley Ramblings said...

Well that made me tear up - I am glad that you posted it though. Maybe you should do something similar on Roskelley Ramblings also. One year - it went so fast!

Judy Stohl said...

It made me tear up also - what wonderful parents!! Wonder what your dad is up to now in his busy next life?? I can't believe a year has gone by.

susette said...

You definitely hit the crying button on that post. Dads are so great.